unlock your Fearlessness

Hi, I'm Maria and I am Fearless!

Before I unlocked my fearless goddess, I lived my life waiting to start living. I was part of the "I'll be happy when" culture. The bold truth is that I was afraid. I was fearful of not being smart enough, not being good enough. I was fearful of being rejected, fearful of not being loved. Some of my fears were conscious, but most were unconscious until I did the work to shed the light onto the fears that held me back.

Fear is a debilitating experience that keeps many of us in a place of stuckness or even in a place of unhappiness, at least it did for me. I knew I wanted to do so much with my life, but my dreams seemed more like a fantasy, like a mirrage destined to live in my head. I blamed things outside of me for my lack of success. I blamed my past for my stuckness. I blamed others; I blamed my parents, I blamed my then husband, and sometimes I blamed the color of my skin. 

So how did I go from being fearful to fearless? I transformed my self concept; who I believe myself to be. You see, I grew up believing certain things about myself. I believed I was not smart and believed that I did not have the intelligence to become successful. I believed I was not capable of having the life I so much desired. This kept me 'stuck' at a job I so much disliked for almost 13 years. I believed others could have an amazing life, but I was not one of those people. I believed my dreams were just that, dreams not meant to be in my physical reality. I believed I was less than others. Even as I share this with you I experience a sense of relief that I am no longer that person who felt  inferior and thus, did not deserve more. 

When my marriage came to an abrupt halt in 2015, my sense of self spun into a whirlwind of doubt, confusion and fear. After months of this whirlwind, into my hands fell a book that shifted everything for me. In 2016, I delved into self development and found the peace I so much craved. I gained many skills and acquired many tools, but still, there were parts of me holding me back from achieving the things I wanted, the success I wanted.  A few years later I found NLP, the Self Concept Model, and it was here that my fearless goddess began to emerge. 

The Self Concept Model is a powerful, systematic approach to addressing your limiting beliefs, your resistance to becoming who you want to be and transforming the way you perceive yourself and your reality. Doing the inner work took me from feeling inferior to being confident about who I am. Doing the inner work took me from being fearful, to addressing the core of my fear and transforming those beliefs into positive beliefs that pull me forward. 

I can talk for hours about every transformation I have experienced that unlocked my Fearless Goddess, but I'd rather show you how you can unlock yours. I invite you to take a chance, the only thing you have to lose is your fear.